Love happens to be the best paradox existing in this world…it is termed as the sweetest and most wonderful of experiences, at the same time it is also said to be a feeling of agony like no other. It might be the pain that bores deep into your heart and breaks it into millions of pieces but it’s a feeling all of us desperate to feel. Now lets come to the more difficult question…What is love?? Well is it selfless sacrifice? Or a feeling that has to result in union of two hearts no matter what the consequences are? Well these are questions that have been tossed over and over again in the history of time….and the fact of the matter is that nobody has an answer….its all a part of the game…the GAME OF LIFE…
As the times have changed so has the definition of love, and people have different ways of looking at this phenomenon, which is inevitable in everyone’s life. For some “Love is life” while for others “love is just a part of life”. Based on either one of these ideologies, people frame how their life functions. For those who function with their heart it is life and for those who function with their heads it’s just a part of life. Does it really matter how one sees LOVE in life?? I really don’t know…. it is all inter-dependent, it depends on what his priorities are, what his duties and responsibilities are, what is his background is etc….
Whatever might be your analysis, no matter how hard you try, if cupid wants to strike you, there is absolutely nothing you can do so…Be prepared for the pain of your life or the joy of a lifetime…
As the times have changed so has the definition of love, and people have different ways of looking at this phenomenon, which is inevitable in everyone’s life. For some “Love is life” while for others “love is just a part of life”. Based on either one of these ideologies, people frame how their life functions. For those who function with their heart it is life and for those who function with their heads it’s just a part of life. Does it really matter how one sees LOVE in life?? I really don’t know…. it is all inter-dependent, it depends on what his priorities are, what his duties and responsibilities are, what is his background is etc….
Whatever might be your analysis, no matter how hard you try, if cupid wants to strike you, there is absolutely nothing you can do so…Be prepared for the pain of your life or the joy of a lifetime…
7 comments:
It certainly depends on you if Love is Life or Love is a part of your life. It can become very difficult to choose between the two at most of the times, but whatever you choose, again, your heart asks you to do that. Since, if we had only heads to use, there would be no use of having a heart. Heart contributes to every possible, even the most quickest of responses you give to stimuli, in a big way.
I think you must have studied the REFLEX ARC in your school, just analyse it, the ARC passes through the nerves near to the heart.
Love, is something which people should always try and achieve in their lives. If you are sacrificing your love for your family sake, of which, parents are the major part, you must try and explain your parents, that you might unite with someone of their choice, but what if you had to regret it all your life for it. You unite with someone for your parent's sake. What will you do after your parents' death? I am sure a small regret in your heart will take erupt into a huge volcano.
If there is anything which can stop you from uniting with your love is YOUR FAMILY. I believe that, the Indian Families must be a little bit more lineant and have trust on their ward's choice for a life partner. No person in this world would choose a life partner for fun. There will be a lot of thinking applied in choosing a life partner.
If the INDIAN PARENTS agree and just try and fulfill their sons' and daughters' dreams of marrying a dream spouse they've found in someone, THERE WILL BE NO SUICIDAL DEATHS OR HOMICIDES, for which LOVE is the ROOT CAUSE.
There is nothing wrong in ARRANGED MARRIAGE though, if the bride or groom has ABSOLUTELY NO PROBLEMS with it. NEVER COMPROMISE IN LIFE. LIFE IS NOT A COMPROMISE, COMPROMISE IS NOT LIFE.
Anonymous...
Thanks fo dropping by,next time i would appreciate if you left your name at the end..
Hey anonymous,I never went to the intricate details of love and futher relationships....all I was doing was an attemt to try and understand the term LOVE...Thats it
Love is not Paradoxical,
Love has only one nature; it is a feeling of eternal bliss. Please do not complicate simple things in life. Like, “The honey nest is surrounded by honey bees", love is also surrounded by many things. Nature beautifully mixed Love and human need for propagation, much like mixing milk with sugar to make it edible.
If we enjoy something, within short time we start getting bonded with it, bonds create fear or insecurity. Much of the problems in life are created as we try to pursuit unreal things (things that have a finite existence). I am not saying love is unreal, but saying that manifesting it a shape to it make it finite. Once you break the shackles of bondage you realize the Bliss in it. Once you intuitive realize that love is not created from outside source, but understand that it is created within oneself, you will realize true love.
PS:- I assume that in this 5 years (when you first posted this blog) you have evolved and it make no sense to answer this question now, But still there is a lot that can be shared in a medium like this.
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